How To Have Motivation, Persistence, and the Ultimate Success For Your Life

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When one thinks of their motivation, they may think about what drives them to carry onward to maintain or complete an ultimate goal. Reaching inside yourself to actually find the motivation is not only the most crucial step, but can be complicated for some. 

If every challenge in life was easy, then they wouldn’t be called challenges.
The “easy” button cannot be pushed or click a pair of red heels together either.

Taking stock of your motivational drive permit’s the equation of success to be more identifiable and overcome any obstacles with ease, more effectively. 

 The fact is different individuals have a wide variety of motivating factors, but why do some tend to be significantly more driven than another? 

Why do some refrain from consistency of expanding and exceeding their own expectations?

Here are a few conclusions reached for the correlation of one lacking motivational persistence:

• Inability to center and focus
• Absence of plan and deprivation of an “imaginary action thought process”
• Conceptual ideas are not put into a process and/or followed through in sequence
• Omits leadership qualities
• Neglects an adventurous sense of desire to move forward
• Reluctant to welcome change
• Limits personal and professional potential

If one cannot center their primary focus on the core goal, then the achievement can either be procrastinated or be perceived as more of a challenge than it has originally been. Nonetheless, the map or plan of action is created solely by the person accruing doubt and fear. The plain worry can cause one to stop before even beginning; therefore, the mind is set for failure from the start.

Motivation can never be properly produced if one dreads proper processes to get to ensure motivational freedom and to eventually used easily for attainable goals. Accurate results become less likely to be achieved and can prove meaningless in the grand scheme when motivation is not a part of life.

The shear confidence has to be felt for the entire product or end result to turn into a concrete realization. Even visualizing the process as a whole can turn one away or make a person work harder than even imagined. One needs a surmountable will, including endurance, sense of inspiration and a primary motive for the angel of achievement.

Create a sense of balance and energy for motivational factors, meaning, never become overwhelmed or let the mind travel to the land of overload. 

Take necessary a time out if needed, but again, stay centered on the primary objective. Keep in the back of the mind if success is not reached the first time, then consider the fault of possible distractions that got the best of the situation and get up and try until the goal is accomplished.

A huge impact in all of our lives is how we retain information, learn, and put desires into action as children. A child’s eyes see the world through a separate set of lenses. We forget the courage and bravery children have.

Think of some of the most wild and crazy stunts tried until it was done perfectly, not to mention lived through. It is unbelievable this imperative mind frame is forgotten when adulthood suddenly sneaks up. Behaviors take on a new “status quo” .

Adults are expected not to speak or act child-like in any way, shape or form. I agree an amount of professionalism must be maintained in the workplace; however, no one lives at work 24/7., so to speak. Use the imagination to help create your own drive for success, just as children do to conquer anything standing in their way.

When one has a predetermined plan that is mentally put into action prior to physically being performed by actually doing, is what I refer to as “imaginary action thought process”. This thought process originates and plants into the minds practical perception for more visualization; therefore, since this takes place solely in one’s mind it has nothing to do with any physical or hands on capabilities, which is the point..

Such a mentally to produce the actions within the brain can prove effective in determining what one sees, feels, touches, smells and tastes once they arrive at their exclusive destination from beginning to end. Also, writing out from start to finish, which is the route I prefer over mentally performing my path of direction. At this point, the initiated intent is a more possible reality for final achievement.

One must be true to their underlying motivations in order for the goal to be absolutely effective. Asking oneself a number of burning questions may help identify the purity for the ambition seeker.

Consider these questions while in the mist of proceeding all potential outcomes and motivational factors:

• Will this create an abundance of happiness once achieved?
• Are there significant drawbacks impacting my loved ones or myself?
• Will finances take a plunge? If so, what alternatives can be considered to proceed now?
• Is there support from others needed to stay afloat?
• Is there an element of doubt to potentially cause a loss of balance for motivational stride?
• Are negative individuals influencing choices in the wrong direction?

Keeping all sight on the bigger picture will be the payoff some wait a lifetime for. Conclude that all motivations have been  Each person has means of adventure lurking to offer a sense of higher purpose, in order to make all desires reality.

Remember to eliminate all present and future barriers from having any limitations stand in the way of motivation. Those barriers only prevent the road to achievement to come in full to gather all the success desired.

Nothing is impossible when one accepts every challenge as a way to sharpen the mind and create freedom thought to once be impossible.

Are you ready to put your motivation into effect and grab what is missing in your life?

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Cannot Hide From Change - Look Forward To Change

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Change seeks out each of us on a daily basis. Obviously, some changes are more detailed oriented and of course have more impact than others. Some directly effect people in such an array of various ways than possibly ever intended; however, it is the changes that guide and mold who we are and will become.

This molding is consistent of more meaningful moments within our precious lives to make the impossible, possible.

Next time anyone forgets how important change is, simple or not, realize it can never be ran away from. Change is inevitable and must be welcomed and appreciated with open arms. Change has to be accepted with grace. By feeling empowered by its presence.

One cannot hide from it underneath the covers or a rock. One cannot pray it away. One cannot hope for the rain to come another day or insist the Moon stays out longer so the Sun won’t shine until we are ready!

Change cannot be forgotten or missed. Without change there would not be progression or the ability each of us have to grow.  After all, that is the best part of change - it helps us. Change may cause some pain or dread, but life without obstacles isn’t life at all.

The changes we have within our daily lives is here to stay no matter how badly some may not accept this.

Think of all the things you have changed in your life from the time you could even recall up until this very moment. The problem being, there is too many moments one would have to think of, causing it nearly impossible to ever be able to accomplish such a feat.

Change can greatly improve one’s life, especially for those who are more equipped to go with the flow of change.

To appreciate it, one must begin to understand change helps those who welcome its ever altering will to drive through to our hearts and minds in order to truly assist us…everyday!

Change has helped all of us achieve skills some may never have the pride to let into their own life thus far.

Look forward to change and the unimaginable experiences it has yet to provide us for in the future.

What will help you understand and appreciate change?

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Losing Control Doesn't Mean It Can't Be Regained

One may think that if they lose control of any given situation or person, place, or thing, that all may be lost; however, this is truly and sincerely not the case.

One cannot always ask why an issues went rye or figure out what happened to try to fix damage already done. What is possible is to realize how the loss of control occurred in order to prevent the same issue from sustaining any amount of failure in the future.

Understand no one is perfect and there would be no success in life without the means of failure or any array of mistakes to learn from.

Regain the control you seek by resetting standards and comprehension of all capabilities that you are able to redirect and regrow through simple change. Carry within the act of hope and faith to leap before you look. This with help one succeed with more control over what is currently happening.

Not all circumstances we are placed into do we have control over; however, understanding all control can be retrieved once again is more than half the battle of regaining the control over yourself that is demanded of you.

Below, are some great books and other items to look into purchasing that can help to regain any amount of control one feels they may have lost one way or another, struggling with currently or for the future.

No Matter What, Set Long Term Goals

No Matter What, Set Long Term Goals

No matter your age, accomplishments, successes, or anything else pursuing and completed thus far within your life - there still must be more long-term goals genuinely set to accommodate ever changing life to meet new expectations for the future.

Launching a new task keeps the mind sharp and continues the flow of creativity to never lie at a stand-still.

 

Never have the frame of mind that every accomplished step is “final”, rather ask yourself:

• What’s next?
• What can I do next to become even more abundant in all ways?
• What more can I do to except and conquer as a fresh challenge?
• What do I fear now that I still have yet to overcome?

Whenever feeling all has been done in your life, ask these questions to learn more about what is still available to be triumphed!

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Stop Assuming and Start Trusting!

Assumptions are made too often and ordinarily will not get anyone too far while trying to get to the bottom of most issues that arise. For some, assuming answers, rather than allowing facts to be discovered, can come naturally to an individual.

This person may have used this method for so long without ever fully comprehending the core source of why they assume or how others feel when the inclination is performed.

Underlying concerns may originate from an individual consistently and constantly always assuming the worst case scenario. This may have started from predisposed notions witnessed either early in life. Derivatives could also be from severe or minor levels of insecurity, a sense of control or release or a number of trust related problems one may have developed, such used as a defense mechanism.

I suppose if all humans were honest, then to ask and trust others would be more of a second nature. This would make life and all its chaotic moments that much more easy to grin and bare through. However, we all know this is not the case, but relying on trust within all inquiries must be initiated in order to figure out the fiction from fact.

The truth within regarding concerns should not matter whether the answer or inquiry is more serious or more meaningful than the next. The trust one must have for another will always outweigh the problematic tone and potential catastrophe brought forth by mere assumptions. 

Knowing the factual information firsthand, rather than information stated by third party persons, would be thought of as common sense to most. This concept tends to be left underneath the dinner table for the dog to eat or for a later date when it is found to be molded and steaming with a foul smell. In other words, that of the purposeful truth is lost until normally found to late once the damage has been created without the hope of pressing any rewind button.

The mind has a tendency to play mind games and tricks, rather than gather the associated content needed to truly have a debatable and mature conversation with another human being.

The old saying goes, “Don’t assume, because you make an a - - out of me and an a - - out of you.” I believe this is true to the highest degree. Humiliation can be the emotion felt between both parties, especially if assumptions are made way above and beyond where the truth lies.

One making assumptions may not know how to accumulate collection of factual information. Or one may simply assume if they ask, then the other person would never tell the truth anyhow. This leads to bitter feelings when it comes to lack of trust and communicative skills in any type of relationship.

Think of jealousy and how a current or past boyfriend, girlfriend, husband, wife…etc has come to you with an assumption. They may have approached the situation without any comprehensive facts as far as the who, what, when, where, why or even the how. This person may have refused to let you justify any explanation as to what lay in the eyes of the truth.

Has that same individual presented their clear cut notion of “what really happened”, but never allowed you to state your case at that moment, nor in the future and the relationship ended or dissipated because of repetitive behaviors without improvements?

This unwillingness to have any thoughts of hearing you. It also is bound from disbelief that the simple truth is not that simple to be heard, no matter what that may be. When one makes an absolute incorrect conclusion it can be the most frustrating and overwhelming sense of disappointment.

Ultimately, the origin of the anger may feels on either end of the assumption could have been prevented with opening clearer lines of communication, patience and actively listening.

If one insists upon assuming, especially within any relationship, without the allowance of  verbalization, then consideration of the another route for the relationship’s destination may need to be filtered or started fresh.

Unless one is willing to make a personal change within their own emotions the fact of assuming will always present itself in insecure conditions causing unneeded conflicts. Stop assuming and start trusting or get out!

These abrupt circumstances could be avoided by complete trust and honesty, mutually, for one another instead of jumping to fictional opinions or beliefs.

Never make assumptions, but remember to set the truth free!

Article Written by Mandy Zadoorian

One Person Has the Power To Make A Difference

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Each person has the ability to make a difference in the World, yet without belief of personal potential, the changes are not as significant. The power to change and improvement the world can be jump-started for success when one appreciates the possibilities are truly unlimited.

After skimming through some random websites one day I had come across verbiage within a paragraph written, “…it is too hard for one person to ever make a difference in this world, so why try?…”. Regretfully, the person listed only as “anonymous”. I wanted to express to “anonymous” a rebuttal, yet also appreciation for the impact of inspiration this short sentence had provided me with at that moment.

As much as I wanted to dispute the comment I decided instead to make every effort to prove the statement to be fiercely incorrect. People do carry a natural willingness to make some type of difference each day, but sometimes this is given with unknown effort or cause.  The willingness to make a difference only has to be portrayed by one person. It does not have to be an entire army to back up the one man or woman in order to change the path of the rest of those who follow.

One person has the ability to facilitate positive influences. By recognizing the difference they feel need to be made and transformed, then they have all the power to incorporate their concept as an individual and produce the transformation into a wonderful reality.

Choices and decisions are made daily by humans and not all are thought out or devised plans for the greater good of mankind. The power of freewill can create the domino effect that enables the toppling over of you and those surrounding you. Some decisions may help others and some may absolutely damage. Whether the outcome from the original selection was intentional or not can cause unwanted results. Results can have severe consequences or the most gratifying rewards ever received.

Why do some feel they cannot possibly provide the surmountable assistance another may need or feel their help will never be enough?

If one is able to apply a sense of empathy, trust, and ethical values, then motives may contain more proportionate and a concise representation in the long run.  

There are various ways to make a difference in the world. Below are suggestions as to how each person can contribute in order to make a difference.  

• Helping innocent lives for genuine, yet demanding causes, such as a foundations, charities, or the vast variety of organizations demanding various levels of help
• Volunteer: Local schools, churches, hospitals, clubs, businesses or other organizations
• Begin a fundraiser to raise money for a cause of your choice
• Actor, radio personality, singer, or let your voice shine through words as a writer
• Doctor, nurse, surgeon or general involvement within the medical field. There is an immense shortage of nurses and medical support staff currently in the United States
• Serving your Country: Navy, Army, or Marines
• Seminarian, Humanitarian, Biologist
• Protect and serve: Firefighters, Policeman, or Security careers

There list above could be expressed with an unlimited amount of documentation to support and justify how much one person has the power within themselves to help in various ways. Endless resources are collecting dust to be utilized to help us, help others.

Devise a plan of action to get the involvement of others is ever found thinking to yourselves that what you have to offer is not enough. Implement an objective to help the progression of dreams, desires, positive, and influential changes to take place.

Make a promise to follow through with goals and honor them. Set ideas into stone and push forth the concrete reality desired to make a gratifying reality. Never prevent the mundane from being transformed into a more defined potential. Work on the Incorporation of encouragement for friends, family, colleagues, or others to also reap the rewards from the gift of help in order to enable their own magic to make a difference.

Ask what is preventing the assistance and implementation of change you could provide right now.

Appreciate chances and all opportunities we truly do have to give back to the world we live in. Remember, a smile is a 100% free gesture that illuminates and radiates as a contagious moment from one person to the next. A smile is sometimes all it takes to make a difference today.

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Make It Happen!

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"People can be divided into three groups; those who make things happen, those who watch things happen, and those who wonder what happened." 

- Nicholas Murray Butler

This is such a fantastic quote and very true, real, and utterly purified to get such a simple point across to us all. This is something that each one of us need to live by in order to achieve the goodness in our lives we demand and desire.

Each of us have the choice to pursue our dreams or think about them or just to watch others achieve success that we want too, but never had the belief to put forth genuine effort to try.

Think about what you most want in your life. Even make a list of short-term versus long-term goals. Then write ways to succeed each of these goals making them all into a reality in your life. Write down the steps each goal would take to achieve with patience, willingness, and consistency it WILL take to encourage it to happen.

Keep me updated on how you are all doing and remember the Holidays are coming....also, I advise everyone to take a second look at what you DO have in life today be thankful for. Give praise for each thing you do have, rather than what you don't!

How To Stay Positive When Others Aren't

Image by TheOneKidKyle via Flickr"Just stay positive" is what we hear as we grow from children into adults from teachers, parents and peers; however, why are some unable to grasp this concept, while others potentially take it for a great leap of faith?

This is a belief that endures all other emotions and behaviors to the fullest degree. This boosts who we are and what we can offer within our life and those whom surround us with their presence. A positive tone will most definitely set the bar for others, along with proving boundaries as limitless, whereas negativity only encourages blocks and various barriers to be placed before us.

There is never a need to be negative when one can be positive and I understand that sounds more easily said than done, but this is quite true. If one has the will to change thought processes and patterns, then it is possible to have comprehension beyond even the wildest of dreams and surreal expectations.

Think about those in your life, including yourself, that walk around without a simple smile or give the cold shoulder to other surrounding them. Maybe they even provide some type of cruel verbiage with every encounter of another as soon as their back turns. Do you know someone life this, maybe even more than one person?

Take a moment to ask yourselves:

• Is there someone in your life that tends to come to you for support each time they fail due to their negative nature as if they have a black cloud beaming over their head?
• Does this person have the same, repeated cycle occur over and over producing more negativity over the years you have known them? 
• Do you think about how your actions may reflect negatively to those you go to when a less then desirable result comes into your own life? 
• How do you handle any  "successful failures"?
• Does negativity weigh upon your attitude at the drop of a hat or are you able to brush it off and pursue your positive thought processes when an event or challenge goes differently than planned?

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• Enjoy life more effectively, naturally, and fully
• Rarely encounter depression from fear, doubt, or overwhelming, uncontrollable situations
• More outgoing, more confident, and more able to effectively achieve goals
• See the cup half full by understanding there is always a brighter side in the midst of a dark circumstance or situation
• Offer a helping hand, purely, to serve as an empathetic ear in relation to compassion
• Less stress factors by working through problems, rather than dwelling on things they cannot change
• Motivated problem-solvers by at least attempting even the impossible solutions to dire answers

This is relative to those thinking positively versus negatively. The sheer essence a positive thinker proves their ability to enable so many others to be able to lean on them for support and guidance.  is able to provide to so many others

These vast, influential qualities allow others to maintain a sense of approachability that negative characteristics just will not and cannot allow. Positivism portrays such great power of ones capabilities for personal drive and expectations.

Negativity has a tendency to hold one back. Negative thinkers have the potential to loose out on opportunities, because they were already considering change as a failure before ever experienced. There is also a lack of appreciation and gratitude that assimilates hand and hand with this behavior, but if realized there is more opportunism and rewards are out there to be discovered, then one can still conquer the negative battle and get back up on their saddle to ride another day.

Never let another prevent your positive glow from shining out. Never let another prevent the happiness and limitless possibilities to prevent becoming a reality. Never settle for another negative thought enter and seclude your mind's positive balance in order to fulfill the heart's content.

Know you deserve the reap these opportunities and rewards if you can stay positive, no matter what the day brings or hold upon your lap.

There Is No Need To Worry

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Written by Mandy Zadoorian

The act of worry is not anything to be taken lightly and is considered a major influence that enables a series of negative outcomes to become a reality. People tend to become out of tune with relationships, jobs, family and most importantly, themselves. Although it is human nature to be concerned at times the immense emotion boundaries of worry mostly lingers within and around key circumstances in which one has no control.

Worry does not care which person it intrudes; anyone can have an extremely abrupt and overwhelming sense of the emotion utterly overpower them. The instance will normally backlash with a bad case of vulnerability.  

From all the research performed by various psychologists, philosophers and elite scientists, worry has been found to only to be within human beings, opposed to animals or any other living organism with a brain.

Worrisome behaviors have overpowered human kind for centuries; however, there are methods to enable and adjust the mind from the routine thought patterns. These techniques can be quote effectively successful.

The shear consumption of worry causes a lack of ability to concentrate on daily tasks. A harsh realization related to resistance factors can implode into the life of a worry-filled individual. This can also determine one to halt their motivation and ability to move forward with, normally, everyday functions.

This behavior attributes to emotional mechanisms, in turn, developing into habitual progressions. One surrenders all clear cut balances they once had or could later still have yet, along with depressing positive outlook and perception, previously very comfortable with.

Comfort is a major defiance of worry, because anyone can get frustrated from a snag in routine matters and functions. However, one whom worries lacks the knowledge action from having the overbearing sense of hopelessness.

Differentiating an individual’s reality from fictional characteristics, now endured by worry, can be complex. One must learn how to reinforce a new way of thinking in order redeem the “emotional  norm” and stop emotional chaos dead in its tracks.

One must begin to trust in terms of positive thinking. Imagining a desired outcome by remembering what one once had, may now demand, or require for their future. Once the mind is able to comprehend more consistent notions that past cannot be changed, then the process to live in the present can help conclude a recovery process. Those willing to sacrifice the old mind set to for the new are more inclined to have a more quick passing of this issue.

One can then embark upon the unknown in a new light and feel a sense of freedom with profound empowerment maybe never witnessed prior. Recall all moments in life, up until today, to imagine all items you dwell upon. Ask yourselves could anything have been changed? Did I make it though the situation and if so, how?

A great example of how we were technically forced to release worry or anxiousness was while younger, in school. Each year, we grew and so did the schools, people, homework…etc. Schooling became more intense and more responsibility was asked of each student, including you. From a child’s eyes, some items provoked thoughts of too much difficulty to have even imagined, yet somehow, the mind and its power of persuasion helped most of us make it.

Reinforcement of growth and newly found inner-confidence provided us with the concepts that could be easily understood as children. This assisted a welcomed embrace for those new experiences and challenges. Even though it may have seemed awful while going through this, the mind allowed resolution of the worry and fear. It was then replaced with a level of drive for success.

When one has always submitted to worry from previous experiences in their life, then it is due to the mind reacting the only way it knows how. This reaction is accumulated by repetitive actions are produce the same results in similar situations each occurrence.

Below are some ideas to start changing the way you think in order to overcome the patterns of worry within your life:

• Just breathe. Breathing is the brain and body’s natural defense mechanism to calm itself, more so the mind and heart
• Visualize different scenarios for successful solutions or desired outcomes for the future
• Map out a plan of action with the pros and cons of how the worry is consuming your life and solutions of how to simplify aspects of your day or life that impact the feelings of worry
• Relaxation techniques through: Meditation, Yoga, More sleep, Talking to a professional or  friend to help find a source or the problem and potential resolution, Exercise,  Improve eating patterns and habits

Over  time, begin referencing back to the plan that you find to work best. Check to see how you have improved and what challenged you are still experiencing and how those items areas still seen as conflicting can be positively altered.

The only one that carrying the burden of worry is the only one that can exploit it, rid it, and tell it goodbye!





 

Never Let Anyone Shatter Your Dreams

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“Never let another shatter your dreams”! This is what we are told while, normally, very young, and perhaps, as we grow into our older years as well. The concept for this statement always remains the same  - It is still 100% true! As a child, I had no idea what this meant and I am sure that I was not the only one. As I matured, I realized these words had more meaning to them then meets the eye.

Who knew this sentence would hinder my negative outlook into something now golden, as if the light bulb finally turned on within my mind after so many years of being completely burnt out. I have never regretted anything in life, but years pass us by so quickly it may be hard to put time and effort into those things one really has the desire to accomplish. It is the choices we choose not to make that cause the wonder of what could have been.

There are so many others that envy another person’s successes. Some will go to great lengths to create the most extensive obstacles keeping another from achieving their ultimate dream. It is only up to one person never allow anyone to shatter the dream worked for so hard to still strive for achievement.

I have been in a predicament before when I wanted to do something from deep within my soul, yet I let another encourage me to shy away. I did something I no longer do. I listened to their negative advice persuading me out of what I really wanted to do in order to obtain my dreams.

I know now that no matter the cost, no matter whom else tries to interrupt my path to achievement, I will not stop to second guess my motives. It took me awhile, but I figured out I am here on this Earth to do something great, just as everyone else has been. My goal in life is to do whatever it takes to make someone else feel more empowered while enlightening the notion all life is worth living by setting forth a plan of action.

I try to express ways for one to transform their life into something more than the “norm”. Also, the anyone has the power to improve their live and the past does not effect a meaningful life for the future. I have always wanted to do something great for others in order to help them in anyway I could think of. I am not sure why  or where this sense of assistance came from, but it has been there as long as I can remember and I am not content or humble with my self unless I am giving help away to someone else.

It is almost as if I cannot feel complete if there is not a way to create a way for another to feel happiness for them self. This is why I choose to write inspirational pieces, among other positive articles as such. If I cannot meet you one-on-one, then please, I ask you to hear my genuine nature through my voice of words.

Unfortunately, achieving a dream can be shattered in an instance. It could be family, friends, counselor or another one looked to for support or any other reason. The problem being, these are all the people one needs in their life to say “anything is possible“, not that it’s not.

Each person can make their dream a reality with having the faith and know how by saying “I can“! Removing the words, “I can’t” need to be removed from every persons vocabulary and frankly, I think the dictionary as well; however, that is merely my personal opinion.

Dismiss all apprehensions, fears, doubts, especially the individuals invading potential. Only one person lets another individual within their life to prevent a dream. Only one can endure the heartache of an individual striping away what you want out of life. Only one can surpass previous failures to now welcome opportunities. Only one can create their own challenges to ultimately enter the world of a successful dreams made into a successful reality.

The only one is you!

Selflessness Through Self-Sacrifice and Compassion

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Article written by Mandy Zadoorian

Selflessness caters characteristics more profound within the human psyche than most others that can ever be described or expressed by an individual. One must completely engage their inner standers of compassion to aid another in moments of weakness or hopelessness. The merciful services rendered in absolute trust and self-sacrifice depicts the sheer intent for selflessness.

The honor, courage, and immaculate assistance is something all are fully capable of giving to another human being. It is a downright amazing feature we have  to hold within our core. The act of selflessness allows an everlasting level of moralistic and significant values of compassion deep inside the beholder.

There has either been or will be a space in time when each person must take and accept their duty to facilitate the needs of another. This may be demand on behalf of a friend, family member, acquaintance or a compete stranger. This is when the sheer action for selflessness and sense of self-sacrifice are in order to help in some way, shape, or form.

An uncanny sense of aim is reinforced to embody only the most sincere presence of compassion for those in need. These targeted, individuals, victims or traces of innocent life is seen often, maybe daily, for some. These people need an opportunity to be provided with assistance. Unfortunately, only a mere few are willing to accept the responsibility of this challenge to actually do anything..

Selflessly supplying someone with your own inner-strength, awareness, and ultimate power becomes the primary function self-sacrifice and has a sense similar to that of a hero. This action reflects one with a kind heart and pure motive to assist another without ever expecting or ever asking of anything in return.

Therefore, the million dollar question then becomes,  why are some reluctant to offer an abundance of assistance to another, versus those whom carry within the “hero-like” essence to rightfully bolt to anyone in need, no matter how significant the aid demands?

Character Representations below are believed to be the most common influences of reluctance:

• Fear: Being afraid for personal safety or not trust loyal intention of those asking for assistance
• Powerlessness: Feeling nothing can be done by their hand, lack of experience or knowledge
• Selfishness: Normally a type of person that asks, “Why would I help this person?”
• Insecurity: : Feeling incapable to provide resourceful aid or afraid their help is not satisfactory
• Presumptuous: To assume “Someone else will help …”

So, how can one develop a surefooted approach to become an able-bodied member of society and overcome the reasons of “why not” , instead asking, “how” they can help?

Genuinely, all have the ability to produce reasonable aid to those carrying within a burden of any sort or a loss of faith to help themselves. To acquire a foundation for substantial selflessness is entirely related to the act of being able to release. One must make the choice to release their anger, powerlessness, insecurities, assumptions, doubt, fear and selfishness. Once these have been set aside for release, then the capacity to provide the gift of a helping hand becomes more profound.

Anyone can change their predisposed views to renew a balanced perception to then retrieve a level of power, trust, confidence and more of a positive, heart-felt motive for the newly discovered empowerment. Empathy is the psychological admiration humans have to visualize or modify our own perception to truly feel another persons’ point of view or circumstance. This can depict the wise wolf within a pack of thousands. This then embodies a willingness for selflessness though self-sacrifice and compassion.