One may think that if they lose control of any given situation or person, place, or thing, that all may be lost; however, this is truly and sincerely not the case.
One cannot always ask why an issues went rye or figure out what happened to try to fix damage already done. What is possible is to realize how the loss of control occurred in order to prevent the same issue from sustaining any amount of failure in the future.
Understand no one is perfect and there would be no success in life without the means of failure or any array of mistakes to learn from.
Regain the control you seek by resetting standards and comprehension of all capabilities that you are able to redirect and regrow through simple change. Carry within the act of hope and faith to leap before you look. This with help one succeed with more control over what is currently happening.
Not all circumstances we are placed into do we have control over; however, understanding all control can be retrieved once again is more than half the battle of regaining the control over yourself that is demanded of you.
Below, are some great books and other items to look into purchasing that can help to regain any amount of control one feels they may have lost one way or another, struggling with currently or for the future.