A positive tone will most definitely set the bar for others, along with proving boundaries as limitless, whereas the negativity only encourages blocks and various barriers placed before us.
There is never a need to be negative when one can be positive and I understand that sounds more easily said than done. If one has the will to change thought processes and patterns, then it is possible to have comprehension beyond even the wildest of dreams and most surreal expectations.
Take a moment to think about those in your life, including yourself, that walk around without a simple smile or cruel verbiage with every encounter.
- Is there someone in your life that tends to come to you for support each time they fail due to their negative nature as if they have a black cloud beaming over their head?
- Does this person have the same, repeated cycle occur over and over producing more negativity over the years you have known them?
- Do you think about how your actions may reflect negatively to those you go to when a less then desirable result comes into your own life?
- How do you handle any "successful failures"?
- Does negativity weigh upon your attitude at the drop of a hat or are you able to brush it off and pursue your positive thought processes when an event or challenge goes differently than planned?
- Enjoy life more effectively, naturally, and fully
- Rarely encounter depression from fear, doubt, or overwhelming, uncontrollable situations
- More outgoing, more confident, and more able to effectively achieve goals
- See the cup half full by understanding there is always a brighter side in the midst of a dark circumstance or situation
- Offer a helping hand, purely, to serve as an empathetic ear in relation to compassion
- Less stress factors by working through problems, rather than dwelling on things they cannot change
- Motivated problem-solvers by at least attempting even the impossible solutions to dire answers
Negativity has the ability to hold one back and potentially loose out on what is truly embraced with gratitude and appreciation. Never let another prevent positive happiness and limitless possibilities to prevent becoming a reality. Never settle for another negative thought enter and seclude the mind's positive balance in order to fulfill the heart's contentment.
(Article Published - September 11, 2010)